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Getting Older by Anonymous

This poem was written by a friend of Elders Voice who wished to remain anonymous – we’re not sure why though – we think she has a brilliant way with words!

 

Two Haiku by Jenny Davison

Have you ever wondered what it’s like to be a charity CEO? Well wonder no more! Our very own Chief Executive, Jenny Davison, has summed up the experience in not one but two haiku. A haiku is a non-rhyming Japanese poem, with three lines containing five, seven, and five syllables. Why not try writing your own and send us the results? For subject ideas download the Community Blog leaflet here.

A Comment On Intergenerational Contact by Oskar Knight

For many young adults such as myself, visiting your grandparents is just about the only scenario in which you would spend any substantial amount of time interacting with older people. I am fortunate in the sense that I can still visit my grandparents today, at the age of 21, and can easily recall fond childhood memories spent with them. I am also fortunate because despite both being over the age of eighty, my grandparents are still fairly mobile, and remain as sharp and witty as ever.

However, the fact that young people’s social contact with older people is almost exclusively reliant upon them interacting with their grandparents can be problematic. Firstly, not all of us are lucky enough to have met our grandparents, or have clear memories of our time with them. This can mean that children have little, if any, meaningful contact with older people during the formative stages of their youth. Consequently, due to their lack of experience, these individuals may remain indifferent towards the oldest in society. As Michael North and Susan Fiske (2012) highlighted, this indifference can simply develop from a lack of education; for example, young people may ‘believe that because older people’s appearance implies certain traits (e.g. lonesome, inferred from droopy eyes; sad, inferred from stooped posture), then they must be that way’.[i]

Additionally, not everyone is lucky enough to have had pleasant childhood experiences with their grandparents. Witnessing the development of physical and mental vulnerabilities in your loved ones can be emotionally draining. If the only experience a child has with old age is one of such suffering, it is understandable why they may subconsciously choose to avoid interacting with older people later in life. This supports the “Terror Management” theory behind rising ageism, which argues that the youth avoid older people in an effort to push away reminders of their own mortality.[ii] Read More

Elders Voice Monday Club by Christopher Dunham

We recently unearthed a poem written by Christopher Dunham, Chair of Trustees, over 15 years ago when he volunteered in the Elders Voice Day Centre. A lot has changed since then and Chris has played a big part in this, so we thought it apt to open our blog with his poem.

 

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